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What the Doctors Say

by Tom on March 19th, 2011

This is Jana, Tom’s wife. I am taking over Tom’s blog for the time being (better to ask forgiveness than permission, my friends say).

We have lots of information to share; some may be a repeat for you, but hopefully more clear. The doctors sat down with the family yesterday and made sure we were all on the same page about Tom’s condition. Their report is below, along with changes and improvements in the last 24 hours:

1. Tom’s altered mental status: this is not a coma, because he is responding to vocal commands and other environmental stimulus. It’s hard to find a word for it, and it’s not clear what caused it. This is possibly a persisting problem following a seizure but we are not sure. We do know, based on the MRI and the lumbar puncture, that there is nothing structurally wrong with his brain, and no sign of infection or lymphoma in his spinal fluid. We are treating Tom with seizure medication and waiting for him to wake up. He is getting better day by day, which is so exciting. Yesterday he started squeezing his hands and moving his eyelids when asked. By this morning he has started nodding appropriately to some questions and keeping his eyes about half way open a little longer. He was not yet ready for their neuro tests this morning (“Squeeze my hand every time I say the letter ‘A’…”) but we’re very encouraged by the rate of his improvement!

2. Tom’s lungs: he has severe infiltrates in both lungs; a couple days ago they were completely white on the xray, meaning lots of hemorrhaging, but they are improving with the administration of high dose steroid. He is breathing with ventilator assistance (intubated). He initiates a breath, and determines how deep a breath he takes, and the ventilator gives him enough oxygen to keep his gas exchange stable. We can extubate (take him off the ventilator) when he’s breathing a more normal mixture of oxygen (right now he needs about 50% when normal air is about 20%) and of course when his is awake enough to want it to come out.

3. Lymphoma: he is in the “leukemic phase” of his cancer. Cells are breaking down left and right, but the steroid is helping him fight while his lungs and kidneys heal. It reduced his white cell count (meaning the cancer is being fought off) by quite a bit yesterday. This helps hold some ground until he is healthy enough to handle chemo. The blood test this morning showed a bit of jump again in tumor cells, which is strange given the high level of steroid he’s receiving, but we’re going to keep monitoring him and get more aggressive with treatment when he’s ready for the fight.

4. Heart: he has pericardial effusion, or water around his heart. Every day they do an echocardiogram and consistently the water level has been stable (actually, the most recent one showed a slight reduction). It hasn’t put any pressure on his heart or affected its function, which is fantastic. The effusion is a result of the lymphoma, so the steroid is likely helping, but it won’t probably go away until we start chemo.

5. Kidneys: the kidney failure he was originally admitted for is no longer a concern. He’s been getting plenty of fluid pushed through, and all the labs show creatinine and uric acid are nice and low.

6. Anemia: Tom is anemic due to the lymphoma and just being generally ill. He is getting transfusions as needed to help him out.

7. Other stuff: Tom is getting lots of antibiotics/antifungals/antivirals because for awhile we weren’t sure whether there were infections causing some of his confusion and sickness. We were worried about pneumonia and other infections in his lungs or his blood, and we know he had at least a UTI (TMI?), poor guy! They’re weaning him off the antibiotics as labs come back and look nice and clear. Tom’s blood pressure and vital signs have remained nice and stable, even during the horrible confusion Weds night when he might have had the seizure. He’s going to be here @ Virginia’s Critical Care unit for awhile, getting the attention he needs while he works on coming back to us. Meanwhile, SCCA is working on testing his brother Mike’s blood to see if he is a match for a future marrow donation – the allogeneic stem cell transplant that he will likely get after chemo.


We have gotten so many wonderful offers of help from family and friends, and I feel so lucky that Tom does not have to go through this alone. If you are wondering what you can do, here are some things:

1. This weekend 3/19 – 3/20: email with any great pictures of Tom, cool facts you know about him that you think strangers would want to know, and share any well wishes you have for Tom himself. Our dear friend Lauren is making a couple posters to hang in his room – one for the nurses, doctors, and visitors to read about Tom, and one for Tom to read when he wakes up. Please contribute ASAP!

2. Consider being a blood, platelet, or especially marrow donor. Without a doubt it would be impossible for Tom to get through this without the infusions of blood and platelets that he’s been getting, and down the road a bit a marrow donation will actually be responsible for rescuing him back to health with a brand new immune system. Someone, be it Mike or some stranger out there, will be saving his life. It could be me or you! All we have to do is sign up on and they will send a swab kit for the inside of your cheek. Only when you are a match for someone will they call you and ask if you want to donate. You are able to help a specific individual who needs you! I will be working to organize an official drive in Tom’s name soon, but please check it out on your own if you are interested.

3. If you are in the Seattle area, you are welcome to come visit. Familiar voices should be helpful to Tom as he starts to wake up. We want to keep overall guests in the room to a non-stressful level for him, but a couple at a time is just fine. Just come to Virginia Mason’s 7th floor, Critical Care unit, room 27. Feel free to call or email first if you want to check that it’s a good time.

Thanks for your prayers and positive thoughts – I, for one, find great comfort knowing how much support is out there willing him to get through this. Tom has so much to live for!!!

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  1. Regan (Newport) Hesse permalink

    Jana, thanks for sharing this update with us. I love your optimism in what I know is such a difficult situation. Tom is SO lucky to have you in his life. I’ve haven’t talked to him much since high school, but I’ve followed his story regularly and I think of him often.

  2. Chris permalink

    Thank you for the update Jana. It is really encouraging that he is improving so quickly.
    I hope that the steroids continue to work and those tumor cells go away.
    Tom’s strength and courage are very inspirational.

  3. Carlos Buhler permalink

    Thank-you, Jana, for making this situation so much clearer to understand. It is disturbing to feel distant and without a way to encourage healing in Tom. It’s as if I am a removed witness of events that I cannot influence but that affect me on many levels. Our love is with you and Tom. We appreciate all that you post here.

  4. Mary permalink

    Jana (and Tom that I’ve not met yet!) I’ll be following here and on FB for more updates. I’m praying for you guys! I hope you have the support and peace you need.


  5. Lynn Woodard permalink

    Dear Jana,
    I do not know you or Tom personally but I am a friend of Mary Malone. She asked me to pray for you guys and that I have done. I myself am a two time cancer survior. I write a motivational blog each day, it has been a great help for me through my journey with Cancer. You are welcome to read it …

    This poem has been something that I posted on my mirror and my fridge, so daily I could remember what Cancer cannot do. Continue with your great attitude and faith. God does know what you are going through and will never leave your or Tom to do it alone. He will make your equal to the task. I can promise you that.
    Take care,
    Lynn Woodard

    What Cancer Cannot Do

    Author: Unknown

    Cancer is so limited…
    It cannot cripple love.
    It cannot shatter hope.
    It cannot corrode faith.
    It cannot eat away peace.
    It cannot destroy confidence.
    It cannot kill friendship.
    It cannot shut out memories.
    It cannot silence courage.
    It cannot reduce eternal life.
    It cannot quench the Spirit.

  6. Sharon Korpe permalink

    Hi Jana,
    I am a friend of Mary Malone’s, she e-mails me all the updates on Tom. I work at group Health in Everett. I am real sorry to hear about Tom. It sounds like you are already staying positive and strong. I have been through some very tough times myself. My husband passed two yrs.ago from hep-c, married 40 yrs. My sister in a car accident last year. And my only son 1-22-11 unexpectedly.
    I don’t know what GOD’S PLAN IS, BUT I DO KNOW HE HAS ONE Jana,for all of us. I will pray for Tom and you, and the power of prayer really works. Tom is in GOD’S hands.
    and that is a good place to be. We are all in GOD’S HANDS

  7. Heather McCall permalink

    You guys are awesome! Lots of love to you….

  8. Jana,

    Thanks for posting this update. I worked with Tom out of Giraffe Labs a few years back. He was always a joy to be around and it breaks my heart that you guys are going through this.

    Best wishes to Tom, yourself, and your families,


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